Thursday, 12 November 2020

Esau


Isaac, Rebeca, Esau and Jacob – a cautionary tale

I once read that a famous child psychologist recommended that all children be told the stories of the Tanach, the Hebrew Bible.

Why?  Because they instill a sense of optimism and  joy in the beauty of the universe and our planet with its breathable air, diverse land forms, rivers and oceans, and filled with countless and diverse animal life: all created by a Divine  who said “it is very good” (Gen. 1:31).

As well, the Bible stories contain many cautionary tales that will forewarn the young    of the vagaries of real life.  The danger of snakes, earthquakes, locus plagues, drought, sibling rival, the pain of childbirth, infertility, murder and war.

And, finally, that the Divine is still active in human history: punishing evil and rewarding good – if not immediately, then ultimately.

 

Isaac, Rebecca, Esau and Jacob   (Gen. 25:20 – 24)

Isaac, Rebecca and Jacob as founders of the 12 tribes of Israel and the Jewish people are revered figures, but their family life is one of the Bible’s more cautionary tales. 

An objective observer – following the actual and exact words of the Bible text, the peshat -- would see their lives as follows:

Rebecca and Isaac marry when he is age 40 and for 20 years they are childless. Then she conceives and has a very painful pregnancy; to the point where she goes for a consultation with an oracle of God and is told she is carrying twins.  

The day of birth arrives and the first child that emerges is all reddish and with lots of hair and the second child emerges with his hand griping the firstborn’s heel.  

They are then named Esau and Jacob. The former for his hairy appearance[i]  at birth and the latter for being a ‘heel grabber’.

Neither name is august, just prosaically factual.  

The naming is also unusual as it does not fit with other namings in the Bible.

As discussed in the blog Part 2: Sarah, Hagar and Ishmael, it is the mother that names the child and at times the Bible also notes the father’s public announcement of the name.

Here, the two names are given by some ‘anonymous’ person, and there is no mention of the father’s public announcement.  It is simply – twice -- שְׁמוֹ וַיִּקְרְאוּ “They called his name … (Gen 25:25 and 26).

Maybe the deliver was so stressful that Rebecca was too weak and a mid-wife and supporting women did the naming.

 

In any case, the twins grow up in their parent’s household and their diverse personalities and interests soon emerge. (Literally the next verse.)

Jacob is calm and stays around the family compound doing whatever needed to be done.(Gen. 25:26)  As he was extremely successful in sheep and goat raising at his father-in-law  Laban’s home decades later (Gen. 30:31-43), one can assume he learned these skills and strategies at home.

Esau, unlike Jacob, prefers the active life of a skilled hunter and would spends days in the wilderness and uninhabited areas pursuing wild game with bow and arrow. (Gen. 25:26)

Esau’s hairiness at birth – like a wild animal – was seen in rabbinic literature as a precursor to his future personality and interests – and love of bloodshed[ii].  So in the argument of Nature vs Nurture, the radical differences between these twins are seen as purely genetics and hereditary: with minimal impact from the home and the environment in which they were both raised side by side.

But there was a significant Nurture element: one that is never desirable.

Ch 25:

 כח  וַיֶּאֱהַב יִצְחָק אֶת-עֵשָׂו, כִּי-צַיִד בְּפִיו; וְרִבְקָה, אֹהֶבֶת אֶת-יַעֲקֹב.

28 Now Isaac loved Esau, because he did eat   of his venison; and Rebekah loved Jacob.

The father, the verse states, “loved” Esau while the mother “loved” Jacob.   

Now the Hebrewוַיֶּאֱהַב  can mean ‘preferred’, but in any case, such a divide at the    parent level is never good.

Esau’s hunting skill was admired and, in fact, encouraged by his father.  Isaac loved    the taste of wild game which Esau brought home, and which Esau also admirably  cooked and presented directly to him.

Gen. 27:2-4

ב  וַיֹּאמֶר, הִנֵּה-נָא זָקַנְתִּי; לֹא יָדַעְתִּי, יוֹם מוֹתִי.

2 And he said: 'Behold now, I am old,                I know not the day of my death.

ג  וְעַתָּה שָׂא-נָא כֵלֶיךָ, תֶּלְיְךָ וְקַשְׁתֶּךָ; וְצֵא, הַשָּׂדֶה, וְצוּדָה לִּי, צידה (צָיִד).

3 Now therefore take, I pray thee, thy    weapons, thy quiver and thy bow, and go        out to the field, and take me venison;

ד  וַעֲשֵׂה-לִי מַטְעַמִּים כַּאֲשֶׁר אָהַבְתִּי, וְהָבִיאָה לִּי--וְאֹכֵלָה:  בַּעֲבוּר תְּבָרֶכְךָ נַפְשִׁי, בְּטֶרֶם אָמוּת.

4 and make me savoury food, such as I love, and bring it to me, that I may eat; that my      soul may bless thee before I die.'

 

Meanwhile, the mother, Rebecca preferred Jacob.  No detailed reasons are given other than the Jacob stayed at home, near her.

Ch 25:

כח  וַיֶּאֱהַב יִצְחָק אֶת-עֵשָׂו, כִּי-צַיִד בְּפִיו; וְרִבְקָה, אֹהֶבֶת אֶת-יַעֲקֹב.

28 Now Isaac loved Esau, because he did eat of his venison; and Rebekah loved Jacob.

 

Rebecca only realized the cost of her behaviour re: Esau when she learns that after her successful plot to steal the firstborn blessing for Jacob, the angry Esau promises revenge: he will kill Jacob once Isaac dies. (Gen. 27:41)

She believes him, and suddenly, in a moment of clarity, she laments:

Ch. 27:

מה  עַד-שׁוּב אַף-אָחִיךָ מִמְּךָ, וְשָׁכַח אֵת אֲשֶׁר-עָשִׂיתָ לּוֹ, וְשָׁלַחְתִּי, וּלְקַחְתִּיךָ מִשָּׁם; לָמָה אֶשְׁכַּל גַּם-שְׁנֵיכֶם, יוֹם אֶחָד.

45 until thy brother's anger turn away from thee, and he forget that which thou hast done to him; then I will send, and fetch thee from thence; why should I be bereaved of you both in one day?'

 

Her key words are: “Why should I loose both of you on the same day?”

For once, she recognizes Esau is also her son, and if he kills Jacob, he will face a      death penalty or flight as an outlaw. In either case, he too is lost to the family and           to her, his mother.

For Isaac, the moment of clarity came when he realized Jacob had bought the firstborn birthright long before, and kept it secret. Esau let this secret out when asking Isaac        for a blessing.

Ch 25:

: לו  וַיֹּאמֶר הֲכִי קָרָא שְׁמוֹ יַעֲקֹב, וַיַּעְקְבֵנִי זֶה פַעֲמַיִם--אֶת-בְּכֹרָתִי לָקָח, וְהִנֵּה עַתָּה לָקַח בִּרְכָתִי; וַיֹּאמַר, הֲלֹא-אָצַלְתָּ לִּי בְּרָכָה.

36 And he said: 'Is not he rightly named Jacob? for he hath supplanted me these      two times: he took away my birthright;     and, behold, now he hath taken away         my blessing.' And he said: 'Hast thou         not reserved a blessing for me?'

 

And Isaac finalized his new attitude when he blessed Jacob a second time before  sending him off to Paddan Aaram (i.e. Haran[iii]) and Laban to find a bride.

Ch 28:

א  וַיִּקְרָא יִצְחָק אֶל-יַעֲקֹב, וַיְבָרֶךְ אֹתוֹ; וַיְצַוֵּהוּ וַיֹּאמֶר לוֹ, לֹא-תִקַּח אִשָּׁה מִבְּנוֹת כְּנָעַן.

1 And Isaac called Jacob, and blessed    him, and charged him, and said unto him: 'Thou shalt not take a wife of the daughters of Canaan

 

As to the relationship between the twins growing up, the Bible is silent – except           for one key incident.

 

The Pot of Stew

Esau, after a long and fruitless hunting trip, returns exhausted and -- if his words          and actions can to trusted – close to death.

He sees Jacob cooking a pot of stew and implores him for some soup.

Jacob refuses unless Esau would then and there ‘sell him the firstborn birthright’.

Esau agrees.

 

Ch 25:

כט  וַיָּזֶד יַעֲקֹב, נָזִיד; וַיָּבֹא עֵשָׂו מִן-הַשָּׂדֶה, וְהוּא עָיֵף.

29 And Jacob sod pottage; and Esau came in from the field, and he was faint.

ל  וַיֹּאמֶר עֵשָׂו אֶל-יַעֲקֹב, הַלְעִיטֵנִי נָא מִן-הָאָדֹם הָאָדֹם הַזֶּה--כִּי עָיֵף, אָנֹכִי; עַל-כֵּן קָרָא-שְׁמוֹ, אֱדוֹם.

30 And Esau said to Jacob: 'Let me swallow, I pray thee, some of this red, red pottage; for I am faint.' Therefore was his name called Edom.

לא  וַיֹּאמֶר, יַעֲקֹב:  מִכְרָה כַיּוֹם אֶת-בְּכֹרָתְךָ, לִי.

31 And Jacob said: 'Sell me first thy birthright.'

לב  וַיֹּאמֶר עֵשָׂו, הִנֵּה אָנֹכִי הוֹלֵךְ לָמוּת; וְלָמָּה-זֶּה לִי, בְּכֹרָה.

32 And Esau said: 'Behold, I am at the   point to die; and what profit shall the birthright do to me?'

לג  וַיֹּאמֶר יַעֲקֹב, הִשָּׁבְעָה לִּי כַּיּוֹם, וַיִּשָּׁבַע, לוֹ; וַיִּמְכֹּר אֶת-בְּכֹרָתוֹ, לְיַעֲקֹב.

33 And Jacob said: 'Swear to me first'; and he swore unto him; and he sold his birthright unto Jacob.

לד  וְיַעֲקֹב נָתַן לְעֵשָׂו, לֶחֶם וּנְזִיד עֲדָשִׁים, וַיֹּאכַל וַיֵּשְׁתְּ, וַיָּקָם וַיֵּלַךְ; וַיִּבֶז עֵשָׂו, אֶת-הַבְּכֹרָה.

34 And Jacob gave Esau bread and pottage of lentils; and he did eat and drink, and    rose up, and went his way.   So Esau despised his birthright.

 

The Bible text supports Jacob as it ends the incident with blaming Esau for giving up the firstborn birthright. (The last few words of verse 34.)

If one takes Esau at his word: that he was so faint that he might collapse and die, Jacob’s behaviour seems both cruel and mendacious.

They are, after all, brothers and twins.

So why not help your brother for free and feed him when he is in distress?                

Jacob not only gave Esau what he asked for: a ‘bit of soup’, but -- after the transfer of the birthright -- a full meal of hearty lentil soup and bread and drink.

An objective observer would be disappointed in Jacob.

The incident, put simply, speaks volumes of a long simmering animosity that Jacob      felt against his ‘older’ brother.

 

That the birthright ‘sale’ was kept secret is also odd.

It is not to Esau’s credit that he did not reveal the sale to Isaac when Isaac – believing   he was about to die – wanted to bless Esau as his ‘firstborn’ son.

Rebecca, the mother, knew the secret, but for some reason kept it hidden from her husband.

A simple sentence spoken to Isaac: “Esau sold the firstborn right to Jacob.”  by Jacob    or by Rebecca – if not Esau – would have avoided the bizarre ‘costume’ charade that ensued.

Rebecca believes that Isaac has in this moment -- near death -- a divine power to both predict and shape the future.  And so too do Isaac and Esau and Jacob.

The ‘blessing scene’ is presented in great detail in the Bible with extensive first person dialogue. (Gen. 27: 1-40)

Rebecca orchestrates an elaborate ruse to make Jacob seem to be Esau to the blind    Isaac. She dresses Jacob in Esau’s clothing and simulates his hairy arms and neck       with applications of hairy goat skins. And she even prepares a meat meal that would pass as wild game.

Isaac, although he is confused as the voice is that of Jacob, not Esau, he nevertheless      gets tricked by the hairy body and animal smell.

When Esau final arrives to Jacob’s tent with game he has caught and prepared to           his father’s liking, he is shocked and enraged.

And with a tearful voice – yes, Esau cries -- he asks a question that has always        bothered me:

Ch 27:

לח  וַיֹּאמֶר עֵשָׂו אֶל-אָבִיו, הַבְרָכָה אַחַת הִוא-לְךָ אָבִי--בָּרְכֵנִי גַם-אָנִי, אָבִי; וַיִּשָּׂא עֵשָׂו קֹלוֹ, וַיֵּבְךְּ.

38 And Esau said unto his father: 'Hast thou but one blessing, my father? bless me, even me also, O my father.' And Esau lifted up his voice, and wept.

 

Isaac and Rebecca had two sons: twins at that, and now, Isaac, before he dies, has only ONE BLESSING to give? 

How is that fair or just?

When Jacob himself was about to die, he blessed all 12 of his sons.  Not just one. (Gen. 49:1-38)

And Isaac’s answer and repeat of the blessing given to Jacob is telling:

לז  וַיַּעַן יִצְחָק וַיֹּאמֶר לְעֵשָׂו, הֵן גְּבִיר שַׂמְתִּיו לָךְ וְאֶת-כָּל-אֶחָיו נָתַתִּי לוֹ לַעֲבָדִים, וְדָגָן וְתִירֹשׁ, סְמַכְתִּיו; וּלְכָה אֵפוֹא, מָה אֶעֱשֶׂה בְּנִי.

37 And Isaac answered and said unto Esau: 'Behold, I have made him thy lord, and all    his brethren have I given to him for servants; and with corn and wine have I sustained him; and what then shall I do for thee, my son?'

 

It is one thing to wish a firstborn son prosperity and an abundance of crops and wine,   but it is another to say: “and as for your brother and all his descendants, they will be ‘under your domination’ and your ‘servants/slaves’.

But that is what Isaac said thinking he was blessing Esau instead of Jacob.

And only under pressure from a crying Esau, does Isaac improvises a second blessing:

לט  וַיַּעַן יִצְחָק אָבִיו, וַיֹּאמֶר אֵלָיו:  הִנֵּה מִשְׁמַנֵּי הָאָרֶץ, יִהְיֶה מוֹשָׁבֶךָ, וּמִטַּל הַשָּׁמַיִם, מֵעָל.

39 And Isaac his father answered and said unto him: Behold, of the fat places of the   earth shall be thy dwelling, and of the dew    of heaven from above;

מ  וְעַל-חַרְבְּךָ תִחְיֶה, וְאֶת-אָחִיךָ תַּעֲבֹד; וְהָיָה כַּאֲשֶׁר תָּרִיד, וּפָרַקְתָּ עֻלּוֹ מֵעַל צַוָּארֶךָ.

40 And by thy sword shalt thou live, and    thou shalt serve thy brother; and it shall    come to pass when thou shalt break loose,   that thou shalt shake his yoke from off thy neck.

 

This second blessing is disturbing.

·        Esau is not blessed with prosperity in crops and wine like Jacob: only to ‘live’ in such locations.

·        Esau and his descendants will be subordinate servants/slaves תַּעֲבֹד to Jacob’s offspring BUT eventually ‘break free’.

·        Esau and his descendants will survive and thrive by the sword – by violence.

 

No wonder Esau left Isaac’s tent upset and outraged.  What a plan-B blessing!

 

What a dysfunctional family!

 

Two other points re: Esau need to be mentioned.

Esau’s marriages

At the age of 40 Esau marries; the same age at which Isaac married Rebecca.

In fact, he marries in the same year two Canaanite women and brings them back to      live in his father’s family compound. (Gen. 26: 34)

As discussed in the blog on the Bible’s terminology of marriage, these marriages are given Formula #2 as they are inter-marriages. But by naming the women’s fathers, it means they were not slaves and the marriages were, in part, to create alliances.

And although Isaac and Rebecca found their new daughter-in-law’s distasteful and ‘upsetting’ in their ways (Gen. 36:35), it is hard to believe the marriages were done       by Esau without his parent’s help.  After all, there would have been two large bride     prices to pay, and Esau was still living ‘at home’.

(A scenario similar that of Samson’s first marriage to a Philistine for which he had his father make the arrangements.  See Judges ch 14 and as discussed in the earlier blog, “Part 1: the Bible’s terminology of marriage”.)

Ch 26:

לד  וַיְהִי עֵשָׂו, בֶּן-אַרְבָּעִים שָׁנָה, וַיִּקַּח אִשָּׁה אֶת-יְהוּדִית, בַּת-בְּאֵרִי הַחִתִּי--וְאֶת-בָּשְׂמַת, בַּת-אֵילֹן הַחִתִּי.

34 And when Esau was forty years old, he took to wife Judith the daughter of Beeri the Hittite, and Basemath the daughter of Elon the Hittite.

לה  וַתִּהְיֶיןָ, מֹרַת רוּחַ, לְיִצְחָק, וּלְרִבְקָה.  {ס}

35 And they were a bitterness of spirit unto Isaac and to Rebekah. {S}

 

Then, many years later, immediately after the Isaac ‘blessing’ incident: when Isaac  sends Jacob to Paddan Aram (i.e., Haran) to get a wife from the ancestral kindred        and NOT a Canaanite (Gen. 28:1-2 ), Esau, now in his mid-60’s,[iv] goes to Ishmael, Abraham’s other son, for a wife.  For their union the Bible used the elevated         Formula #1  לוֹ לְאִשָּׁה. (Gen.28:8-9).  

 ח  וַיַּרְא עֵשָׂו, כִּי רָעוֹת בְּנוֹת כְּנָעַן, בְּעֵינֵי, יִצְחָק אָבִיו.

8 and Esau saw that the daughters of   Canaan pleased not Isaac his father;

ט  וַיֵּלֶךְ עֵשָׂו, אֶל-יִשְׁמָעֵאל; וַיִּקַּח אֶת-מָחֲלַת בַּת-יִשְׁמָעֵאל בֶּן-אַבְרָהָם אֲחוֹת נְבָיוֹת, עַל-נָשָׁיו--לוֹ לְאִשָּׁה .

9 so Esau went unto Ishmael, and took unto the wives that he had Mahalath the daughter of Ishmael Abraham's son, the sister of Nebaioth, to be his wife. 

 


And as the Bible emphasizes, Esau did this “to please his father”.


If you pay attention, you will notice this 3rd marriage took place more than 20 years after his ‘double’ wedding at age 40.  Esau never complains about his first two wives. Moreover, the genealogy of ch 36 states these first two wives bore Esau 4 sons before he moved to Mount Seir -- and possibly daughters as well (Gen. 36: 6).  But their births and existence is left out in the Bible narrative as it focuses on Jacob.

 

Esau’s response to Jacob’s return

Jump forward another 22 or so years.  Esau – and Jacob – are now in their mid-80s.

The account of the ‘reunion’ of Jacob and Esau is described in great detail and, again, with much first person dialogue. It takes up Ch 32:4-33 and Ch 33:1-16.

Jacob is still after more than 20 years fearful of his brother and his promised revenge: i.e., Esau will murder Jacob.

He sends messengers to notify Esau, who is residing in the far south at mount Seir,      that he is returning.

The messengers return saying Esau is coming to meet him with 400 men.

Fearful, Jacob then sends a huge number of animals as a gift: in 4 to 5 separate herds  one after another with verbal messages of friendship , hoping Esau will be ‘appeased’ and go home with these herds.

But Esau and his 400 men still continue on toward Jacob and his family.

Fearing the worst, Jacob, in desperation, divides up his wives and children and herds  into two camps: so if Esau attacks one, the other might be able to flee.

He also places the two groups on the other side of a river, and bravely crosses it alone   to face Esau’s rage and probably death.

This is the setting of the famous battle he has with a stranger in the dark of night; an angel with the message: ‘God will protect you.’ And also a name change gift: Jacob    ‘the heel’ will now be called ‘Israel’, i.e.  ‘one who fought and overcame a divine  force’.

And when Eau and his men finally arrive, Esau runs up and hugs him and kisses him.

ד  וַיָּרָץ עֵשָׂו לִקְרָאתוֹ וַיְחַבְּקֵהוּ, וַיִּפֹּל עַל-צַוָּארָו וַיִּשָּׁקֵהוּ; וַיִּבְכּוּ.

4 And Esau ran to meet him, and embraced him, and fell on his neck, and kissed him;  and they wept.

To Jacob’s utter surprise, murder is not Esau’s mind.  And they even share a good cry.

Esau then explained his 400 men were to accompany and protect Jacob and his   entourage as they travel into Canaan. When Jacob demurs, Esau again offers a        smaller security guard contingent.

Jacob again says no, and so Esau and his 400 men leave and go back to Mount Seir.

 

Jacob other reunion

Jacob then settles in Succoth and buys land near the city of Shechem. (Gen. 33: 17-19)

After the disastrous incident with Dina, he leaves and moves on.  As they reach Bethlehem, Rachel goes into labour with Benjamin, dies in childbirth and is buried by the roadside. (Gen. 35:16-20)

Only after all of the above does Jacob go to visit Isaac who is living by Hebron: to introduce his remaining wives and children to his blind father (Gen. 35:27).   Rebecca,   it seems, has already died as she is not mentioned[v].

The very next verse deals with Isaac’s death and burial. (Gen, 35:29)

 

NOTE: While not everything in the Chumash is in chronological order, there is no dispute that Jacob visited Isaac only just before his death.  In fact, Ramban for Genesis 35:28 states that Jacob arrived just 7 days before Isaac’s death and Isaac’s death was delayed so that both Esau and a returning Jacob could attend his funeral.

 

End of Esau

As for Esau, he appears just twice more in the Bible.

When Isaac dies at age 180 (Yes, some 50 years after the ‘blessings’) Esau, now about age 120, is prominently listed as participating in the funeral alongside Jacob.         

In fact, the Bible lists Esau first!

Gen. Ch 35:

כט  וַיִּגְוַע יִצְחָק וַיָּמָת וַיֵּאָסֶף אֶל-עַמָּיו, זָקֵן וּשְׂבַע יָמִים; וַיִּקְבְּרוּ אֹתוֹ, עֵשָׂו וְיַעֲקֹב בָּנָיו.   

29 And Isaac expired, and died, and was gathered unto his people, old and full of  days; and Esau and Jacob his sons buried him. 

 

The final time Esau appears is in Ch 36 as the entire chapter of 43 verses is a list of      his offspring and descendant’s for multiple generations.

Yes, like Ishmael (Gen. 25:12-18), he too gets a respectful, even far lengthier    genealogy.

 

Ch, 36 also includes the following passage:

https://www.mechon-mamre.org/p/pt/pt0136.htm

  וַיִּקַּח עֵשָׂו אֶת-נָשָׁיו וְאֶת-בָּנָיו וְאֶת-בְּנֹתָיו, וְאֶת-כָּל-נַפְשׁוֹת בֵּיתוֹ, וְאֶת-מִקְנֵהוּ וְאֶת-כָּל-בְּהֶמְתּוֹ וְאֵת כָּל-קִנְיָנוֹ, אֲשֶׁר רָכַשׁ בְּאֶרֶץ כְּנָעַן; וַיֵּלֶךְ אֶל-אֶרֶץ, מִפְּנֵי יַעֲקֹב אָחִיו.

6 And Esau took his wives, and his sons, and his daughters, and all the souls of his house, and his cattle, and all his beasts, and all his possessions, which he had gathered in the land of Canaan; and went into a land away from his brother Jacob.

ז  כִּי-הָיָה רְכוּשָׁם רָב, מִשֶּׁבֶת יַחְדָּו; וְלֹא יָכְלָה אֶרֶץ מְגוּרֵיהֶם, לָשֵׂאת אֹתָם--מִפְּנֵי, מִקְנֵיהֶם.

7 For their substance was too great for them to dwell together; and the land of their sojournings could not bear them because of their cattle.

ח  וַיֵּשֶׁב עֵשָׂו בְּהַר שֵׂעִיר, עֵשָׂו הוּא אֱדוֹם.

8 And Esau dwelt in the mountain-land of Seir--Esau is Edom

 

Just like Abraham and Lot before them, Esau and Jacob had such large herds,    numerous servants and families that they ‘agreed’ to separate and live far apart.

No enmity here, but a peaceful, pragmatic separation.

 

The laws of Inheritance

Deut. 21:15-17 states as God’s ruling that if a man has two sons and the one born first    is from a ‘hated’ wife and the second one born is from a ‘beloved’ wife, primogenitor still rules.  The first born son gets a double share of the inheritance – no matter what    the father would wish.

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טו  כִּי-תִהְיֶיןָ לְאִישׁ שְׁתֵּי נָשִׁים, הָאַחַת אֲהוּבָה וְהָאַחַת שְׂנוּאָה, וְיָלְדוּ-לוֹ בָנִים, הָאֲהוּבָה וְהַשְּׂנוּאָה; וְהָיָה הַבֵּן הַבְּכֹר, לַשְּׂנִיאָה.

15 If a man have two wives, the one beloved, and   the other hated, and they have borne him children, both the beloved and the hated; and if the first-born son be hers that was hated;

טז  וְהָיָה, בְּיוֹם הַנְחִילוֹ אֶת-בָּנָיו, אֵת אֲשֶׁר-יִהְיֶה, לוֹ--לֹא יוּכַל, לְבַכֵּר אֶת-בֶּן-הָאֲהוּבָה, עַל-פְּנֵי בֶן-הַשְּׂנוּאָה, הַבְּכֹר.

16 then it shall be, in the day that he causeth his sons to inherit that which he hath, that he may not make the son of the beloved the first-born before the son   of the hated, who is the first-born;

יז  כִּי אֶת-הַבְּכֹר בֶּן-הַשְּׂנוּאָה יַכִּיר, לָתֶת לוֹ פִּי שְׁנַיִם, בְּכֹל אֲשֶׁר-יִמָּצֵא, לוֹ:  כִּי-הוּא רֵאשִׁית אֹנוֹ, לוֹ מִשְׁפַּט הַבְּכֹרָה.  {ס}

17 but he shall acknowledge the first-born, the son   of the hated, by giving him a double portion of all that he hath; for he is the first-fruits of his strength, the right of the first-born is his. {S}

 

While the above deals with the offspring of two separate wives, the Medieval commentator Ibn Ezra notes the rule applies to twin sons as well[vi].

 

That would mean that Esau should inherit double the share that his twin brother Jacob was to receive, as Esau emerged first from the womb.  It could also explain -- as a practical matter -- why Jacob cared to be recognized as ‘the firstborn’ and the trickery that he and Rachel -- who preferred Jacob -- pursued.

 

Now the above Divine law given after the Exodus may not have applied beforehand,  i.e., during Patriarch times.

 

In fact, the law was different.

 

The Code of Hammurabi, the great Mesopotamian king who lived just before or contemporaneous with Abraham at the start of the 18th century BCE[vii] has his entire law code extent with 282 laws.

 

As all 7 nations of Canaan were ‘Semitic’ and of Mesopotamian ancestry, in all likelihood the laws of Canaan would be identical to Mesopotamian law. 

 

 Also, Abraham and Sarah were themselves Mesopotamian: brought up in its culture   and under its laws.  Abraham and Sarah were raised in Ur (Gen. 11:28) and only left Mesopotamia when Abraham was 75 years old and Sarah 65 (Gen. 12:4). Even   Rebecca and thereafter Leah and Rachel (and of course Laban) -- who all lived in Mesopotamian – would have been familiar with these laws.

 

This strong Mesopotamian link is why Abraham and all the patriarchs and their descendants are called HEBREWS numerous times in the Bible[viii]: literary, “they come from over the river (Euphrates)” –   the official southern boundary of ancient Mesopotamia.

 

So what was Mesopotamian law regarding inheritance?

The Code of Hammurabi, #170[ix] states:

If his wife bear sons to a man, or his maid-servant have borne sons, and the    father while still living says to the children whom his maid-servant has borne:  "My sons," and he count them with the sons of his wife; if then the father die,  then the sons of the wife and of the maid-servant shall divide the paternal  property in common. The son of the wife is to partition and choose.

While the situation is more like that of Hagar and Ishmael, the principal is clear: all recognized sons share equally in the inheritance.

So under Mesopotamian law, Esau and Jacob – no matter who was born first – would be equal heirs.

The only thing Isaac could give to his first-born son that would be ‘distinctive’ was the blessing: and even this was prescribed by custom – if not law – to be given to the ‘firstborn’ son.

 

CONCLUSION

The Bible in its sections re: Isaac, Rebecca, Esau and Jacob tends to present the views of Rebecca and Jacob. This is exactly the same as it did earlier on with the rivalry between Sarah and Hagar as to who should be Abraham’s heir: Ishmael or Isaac -- as detailed in a previous blog.

Such a perceptive is easily understandable because it is Jacob – not Esau – who in the father of the 12 Tribe of Israel and progenitor of the Jewish People. And it is to him    that God speaks often: Gen. 28:12-15; 32:2-13, 25-31; 35:1, 9-13.

Yes, there must have been good reason for Rebecca and especially Jacob to fear Esau’s threat of revenge even after 20 years, as Esau was not only an athletic outdoorsman    and skilled hunter, but one who probably had a ‘hot temper’ -- though it never appears   in the Bible text other than his vow of revenge.

But when Jacob returns after 20 years, the reality is Esau no longer has any murderous intent. Instead, the Bible portrays him as a loving brother: with hugs and kisses.

And as the Bible stresses, Esau still showed respect for Isaac and participated fully -- alongside Jacob – in Isaac’s funeral.

Finally, as noted in Ch 36, he and Jacob separated their families and herds amicably, with Esau moving to Mount Seir.

 

A man who cries when his father cannot give him a blessing, a man who takes      another wife to please his father, is not all bad.

And, in the end, as stated explicitly in the Bible text, he was not a danger and              ‘hot head’ any more.

As far as the Bible text is concerned -- the peshat -- the brothers ended up as they should: not hostile rivals – but peacefully.

 

Isaac’s 1st Blessing

As for Isaac’s blessing given to Jacob, its section re: Edom (identical to the prophecy Rebecca received when pregnant (Gen. 25; 23)), did not come true for many centuries; and even then, it was bizarrely shot lived.

King David conquered Edom[x] c. 1000 BCE and it was a vassal state until it won back independence during the 8 year reign of King Jehoram of Judah (834 -842).[xi]  A total of      50 to 60 years.

Then, centuries later, the Hasmonean King Jonathan Hyrcanus (ruler 134 BCE to         103 BCE) annexed Edom.[xii].

His conquest and forced conversion of Esau’s descendants soon had its comeuppance:   as Jonathan allowed the Edomite royal family to marry into the Hasmoneans.  

King Herod the Great (ruler 37 BCE to 4 BCE), son of Antipater the Idumaean (yes, Edom) [xiii]  and thereafter his sons, ruled all or parts of Judea and ancient Israel      until 6 CE for the Jerusalem area and to 39 CE for the Galilee and east of the Jordan.[xiv]

All ruled as Jewish monarchs. 

Herod’s most famous accomplishment was the enlargement of the Temple mount to its current stone walls (Yes, the Western Wall is Herod’s) and enlarging and beautifying the Second Temple building itself.[xv]

Thereafter, all was under direct Roman rule for the next 600 years!

 

Rabbinic approach

Rabbinic sources from the Midrash to Talmud and thereafter have always seen the struggle of the twins in the womb – and Bible events thereafter -- as hallmarks of an ‘eternal enmity’ and ‘struggle’ between the children of Israel and evil Edom.

Ch 25:

כג  וַיֹּאמֶר יְהוָה לָהּ, שְׁנֵי גֹיִים בְּבִטְנֵךְ, וּשְׁנֵי לְאֻמִּים, מִמֵּעַיִךְ יִפָּרֵדוּ; וּלְאֹם מִלְאֹם יֶאֱמָץ, וְרַב יַעֲבֹד צָעִיר.

23 And the LORD said unto her: Two nations are in thy womb, and two peoples shall be separated from thy bowels; and the one people shall be stronger than the other people; and the elder shall serve the younger.

 

Consequently, Esau is vilified left, right and centre[xvi].          

Fanciful ideas include:

Q: Why did Rebecca had such pains during pregnancy?

A: Because every time she passed an idol temple Esau would try to jump out and whenever she passed a place of God, Jacob would try to get out.

Q: Why was Esau tired when he came to Jacob making stew?

A: It was the day of Abraham’s death.  Esau was coming back from killing the great King Nimrod: ambushing him so he could steal his supernatural clothing that was handed down from Adam. He also stopped to rape a young bride.

Q: Why did Isaac prefer Esau?

A: Rashi says Esau constantly lied to his father and pretended to be studying Torah.

Q: Why did Jacob come to Laban empty handed and without the required bride price gifts as did Eliezer?

A.  Esau’s son attacked Jacob once he left home and stole all the valuables.

Q: Why did Esau hug and kiss Jacob?

A: He was actually trying to bit his neck but miraculously it turned to marble.

Q: Why is Rebecca’s death never mentioned in the Bible?

A: Rashi, citing Genesis Rabbah, states her death and burial were kept secret so that “people might not curse the mother who gave birth to Esau.”[xvii]

Q; When did Esau die?

A: When the children of Israel came to the family cave/crypt to bury Jacob, Esau tried to block the burial claiming there was only one spot left and it should be his. During the heated argument, a deaf son of Dan was so outraged he took a sword and cut off Esau head. Esau’s head was small enough to fit at Jacob’s feet.

Q. Who is the ancestor of the Romans that took over and crushed Judea and its two revolts?

A: Esau.  Rome comes from his descendants, Edom.

This last, bizarre identification first appears in the Jerusalem Talmud which blames the offspring of Esau for the destruction of Beitar, the final stronghold of the failed Bar Kochva Revolt against Rome (132-136 CE).  The Midrash Tanchumah lists Emperor Hadrian as “King of Edom” and Genesis Rabbah in discussing the twins in the womb calls Esau ”Hadrian”.

Other rabbinic and later identifications of even King Herod as Roman, can be found in the article, “Esau, the ancestor of Rome” at https://www.thetorah.com/article/esau-the-ancestor-of-rome .

 

In closing, the life of the family of Isaac and Rebecca was highly dysfunctional and a cautionary warning for all parents and siblings.

And while Esau was not perfect, he clearly – based on the straightforward meaning       of the Bible text – the peshat -- tried to be a loyal and faithful son to his father.

Whatever anger and grudge he had against Jacob for stealing the ‘blessing’ dissipated over the 20+ years of Jacobs absence: as he was able to amass both wives and children and great wealth and large herds anyway.

 

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Esau’s descendants

One could argue Esau’s demonization was less to do with him than to some of his is descendants.

Esau fathered 5 sons from his three wives and also daughters. He was grandfather to      at least 10 grandsons and probably granddaughters. (Gen. 36: 10-14)

However, one grandson was named Amalek (Gen. 36: 12).  

It is this descendant and his followers and tribe that became notorious in Jewish history for attacking the children of Israel after the Exodus: when they were tired and weary.    For this act of kinship betrayal, God ordered their total extinction in the future. (Exod. 17: 8-16)


Ch 17:14

יד  וַיֹּאמֶר יְהוָה אֶל-מֹשֶׁה, כְּתֹב זֹאת זִכָּרוֹן בַּסֵּפֶר, וְשִׂים, בְּאָזְנֵי יְהוֹשֻׁעַ:  כִּי-מָחֹה אֶמְחֶה אֶת-זֵכֶר עֲמָלֵק, מִתַּחַת הַשָּׁמָיִם.

14 And the LORD said unto Moses: 'Write this for a memorial in the book, and rehearse it in the ears of Joshua: for I will utterly blot out the remembrance of Amalek from under heaven

 

King Saul carried out this punishment years later. With the Prophet Samuel’s sword welding, King Agag of Amalek was cut to pieces, and all his people: men, women and children, were all killed. (1 Samuel Ch. 15).  A Biblical   punishment called Cherem הֶחֱרִים -- as done previously with the cities of Ai and Jericho by Joshua.

Certainly the prominence in the Bible of Amalek – Esau’s grandson’s descendants --    and their evil actions did not help Esau’s reputation, and may, in part, account for   Esau’s vilification in rabbinic legends and literature.

But there is also a second, centuries later ‘descendant’: Haman.

The evil viceroy of the Persian King Achashverosh plotted to exterminate all Jews throughout the world empire of Persia on the 13th of Adar. (Esther 3:7-9)

And he is identified in the Book of Esther as the “son of Hasmmedatha the Agagite”.

Esther 3:1

א  אַחַר הַדְּבָרִים הָאֵלֶּה, גִּדַּל הַמֶּלֶךְ אֲחַשְׁוֵרוֹשׁ אֶת-הָמָן בֶּן-הַמְּדָתָא הָאֲגָגִי--וַיְנַשְּׂאֵהוּ; וַיָּשֶׂם, אֶת-כִּסְאוֹ, מֵעַל, כָּל-הַשָּׂרִים אֲשֶׁר אִתּוֹ.

1 After these things did king Ahasuerus promote Haman the son of Hammedatha the Agagite, and advanced him, and set his seat above all the princes that were with him.

 

According to rabbinic tradition (Talmud Bavli, Megilla 13a.1), he was a descendant       of King Agag, the Amalek ruler that Samuel slew.

This lineage is accepted by Josephus[xviii], and by a  detailed genealogy going back     to Esau in the early Medieval Aramaic translation of the Book of Esther called      Targum Sheni[xix].

It is also accepted by modern historians[xx].

 

Lastly, one need not speculate like the rabbis of the Talmud that King Agag, during      the extra night of life Saul gave him before Samuel’s arrival and slew him, impregnated a slave girl and Hamman was a descendent of this one night act. 

Saul’s attack and slaughter did not impact all Amalekites for more Amalekites appear in 1 Samuel much later.  An Amalekite was somehow involved in the last battle between King Saul’s army and the Philistines.  He brought King Saul’s royal crown and arm bracelet to David and false claimed he have killed Saul himself (2 Samuel 1: 1-10).

According to 1 Samuel 30,  while David and his 600 men were off somewhere, his home and city of Ziklag – where his two wives and all the spouses and offspring of his men resided – was raided by Amalekites who burned the city to the ground and took everyone captive.  When David and his forces caught up to them, there was a great battle and David’s forces slaughter countless Amalekites and recovered his two wives and all the others.

1 Samuel 30:

יז  וַיַּכֵּם דָּוִד מֵהַנֶּשֶׁף וְעַד-הָעֶרֶב, לְמָחֳרָתָם; וְלֹא-נִמְלַט מֵהֶם אִישׁ, כִּי אִם-אַרְבַּע מֵאוֹת אִישׁ-נַעַר אֲשֶׁר-רָכְבוּ עַל-הַגְּמַלִּים וַיָּנֻסוּ.

17 And David smote them from the twilight even unto the evening of the next day; and there escaped not a man of them, save four hundred young men, who rode upon camels and fled.

יח  וַיַּצֵּל דָּוִד, אֵת כָּל-אֲשֶׁר לָקְחוּ עֲמָלֵק; וְאֶת-שְׁתֵּי נָשָׁיו, הִצִּיל דָּוִד.

18 And David recovered all that the Amalekites had taken; and David rescued his two wives.

יט  וְלֹא נֶעְדַּר-לָהֶם מִן-הַקָּטֹן וְעַד-הַגָּדוֹל וְעַד-בָּנִים וּבָנוֹת, וּמִשָּׁלָל, וְעַד כָּל-אֲשֶׁר לָקְחוּ, לָהֶם:  הַכֹּל, הֵשִׁיב דָּוִד.

19 And there was nothing lacking to them, neither small nor great, neither sons nor daughters, neither spoil, nor any thing that they had taken to them; David brought back all.

But notice 400 Amalekite survived as they fed on camels.

Consequently, the death of King Agag and all those found with him by King Saul       was not the end of Amalek. 


CONCLUSION

It is not surprising that after the destruction of the Second Temple (enlarged and       made magnificent by King Herod) and the disaster of the Bar Kochva Revolt:          when rabbinic legends and midrashim were being created and the Jerusalem and Babylonian Talmuds compiled (c. 300 CE and c. 500 CE), looking back at the great misfortunes of the past – and looking for a common thread or link – it was not hard       to see Esau and the struggle in the womb with Jacob as a logical ‘source’.

The evils that befell the Israelites after the Exodus, the efforts to crush and destroy        the Children of Israel many centuries later, all made sense as the ‘evil seed’ of Esau.

The mindset: Nature rules over Nurture.

Or, as the old expression, goes: The apple does not fall far from the tree.  

But this is not the Esau that the actual words of the Bible – ending with Genesis            Ch 36 -- presents.




[i] See section ‘Birth’ at https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Esau

[ii] See Rashi for Gen. 25:25 where he cites Genesis Rabbah 63:8.

[iii] Paddan Aram, also called Aram Naharraim, is a region and local kingdom.  The first means          ‘the fields of Aram’ and the second ‘Aram by the river’. The central city is Haran.  See https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Haran_(biblical_place)

[iv] The analysis by  https://sites.google.com/site/calendarstudies/genesis-28-9  suggests Esau and    Jacob were about age 63. This is based on the fact Esau negotiated with Ishmael who died at age 137. As Ishmael was 14 years older than Isaac, and Esau and Jacob where born when Isaac was 60,      Ishmael would have been 74 at their birth. At his death, Esau and Jacob could not have been more    than 63 years old = 137 – 74.

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[v] See Rashi’s Gen. 35:8 commentary #3.  Rashi, citing  Genesis Rabbah and Midrash Tancuma,    states Jacob learned of Rebecca’s recent death when burying her nurse Deborah.

[vii] https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hammurabi

[viii] Gen. 14:13, 39:14 and 17, Exod. 41:12; Exod. 1:15-16, 19, 21, Exod. 2:6-7, 11, 13;                  Exod. 21:2; Deut. 15:12 and nine other times in the ensuing Tanach as tracked by Bible Hub

[ix] https://avalon.law.yale.edu/ancient/hamframe.asp

[x] 2 Samuel 8:14, 1 Kings 11:15-16

[xi] 2 Kings 8:20-22

[xii] See http://www.jewishencyclopedia.com/articles/7972-hyrcanus-john-johanan-i   and  https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/John_Hyrcanus

[xiii] https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Herod_the_Great

[xiv] https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Judea_(Roman_province)#:~:text=The%20Roman%20province%20of%20Judea%20%28%2F%20d%CA%92%20u%CB%90,of%20the%20Hasmonean%20and%20Herodian%20kingdoms%20of%20Judea.

[xv]  It is Herod’s magnificent Second Temple that is the centre-piece of the Israel Museum’s Jerusalem model reconstruction. See right sidebar at https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Second_Temple

[xvi] See https://www.chabad.org/library/article_cdo/aid/3840330/jewish/Jacob-and-Esau-in-the-Bible.htm

[xvii] Rashi for Gen.35:8, comment #3.

[xviii] https://penelope.uchicago.edu/josephus/ant-11.html

[xix] See Wikipedia which reprints the full linage at https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Haman#:~:text=As%20his%20epithet%20Agagite%20indicates,the%20king%20of%20the%20Amalekites.

[xx] See https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Haman and  http://www.jewishencyclopedia.com/articles/7124-haman-the-agagite

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