Monday, 2 November 2020

Part 2: Sarah, Hagar and Ishmael

 

Sarah, Hagar and the laws of Inheritance

Genesis Chapter 21 opens with the birth of Isaac to Sarah.

She had long been barren and some 15 years before had instructed her husband Abraham to consort with her handmaiden slave, Hagar, so a child and heir could be born to him[i] (Genesis 16: 1-4). That offspring was Ishmael.

Now the relationship between Sarah, the wife, and Hagar, now also a ‘wife’                " לוֹ לְאִשָּׁה "  (Gen 16:3) became and remained tense.

 

Sarah complains to Abraham and blames him for the pregnant Hagar’s ‘impudence’:

ה  וַתֹּאמֶר שָׂרַי אֶל-אַבְרָם, חֲמָסִי עָלֶיךָ--אָנֹכִי נָתַתִּי שִׁפְחָתִי בְּחֵיקֶךָ, וַתֵּרֶא כִּי הָרָתָה וָאֵקַל בְּעֵינֶיהָ; יִשְׁפֹּט יְהוָה, בֵּינִי וּבֵינֶיךָ.

5 And Sarai said unto Abram: 'My wrong      be upon thee: I gave my handmaid into thy bosom; and when she saw that she had conceived, I was despised in her eyes: the LORD judge between me and thee.'

                                                                        https://www.mechon-mamre.org/p/pt/pt0116.htm

 Abraham, to placate his wife and still maintain hope of an heir from Hagar, returns Hagar to Sarah’s ‘control’ (Genesis 16: 6).

Very soon thereafter – literally in the same verse 6 – Hagar flees because of Sarah’s abusiveness.

Hagar stops at a water hole in the wilderness and there she meets someone -- an angel -- who encourages her to return and submit to          any ill- treatment by Sarah: as he promises her son would become a  great warrior and the ancestor of    a great and numerous people.    (Gen.16: 5-14).

Fortunately, Hagar returns and soon Ishmael is born.

 

Now the Biblical text in its rapid progression glosses over and omits some obvious and important scenes as if it wishes the reader to also overlook them:

·        Confrontation of Abraham with Sarah:

1.     How did Abraham react to the news of Hagar’s flight and what did he say

to Sarah?  Did he angrily blame her for her abuses that triggered the flight?  Did he   break down and weep as Hagar was his last chance to have a child and a male heir;     and now this all has vanished  – due to Sarah?

 

2.     How did Sarah react to the flight?  Now that Hagar is gone and Abraham surely traumatized, what would she say to him?   Would she recognize her self-absorption      and her excessive treatment of Hagar?  Would she now realize that her actions could have led to a miscarriage – to Abraham’s dismay? 

 

3.     And in this moment of clarity, did she realize that her personal relationship with her husband may have become irrevocably and permanently damaged?

 

Fortunately Hagar did return. 

 

Consequently:

1.     Did Sarah change her ways and act kindly to Hagar?

2.     Did Abraham keep a closer eye on Hagar and Sarah?

3.     Did he leave Hagar under Sarah’s control?

 

The Bible simply jumps to the successful outcome of the pregnancy and birth of a son    to Abraham – a son whom Abraham names Ishmael, i.e.,   “God has heard my plea”[ii].

 

Gen. 16:15

 וַתֵּלֶד הָגָר לְאַבְרָם, בֵּן; וַיִּקְרָא אַבְרָם שֶׁם-בְּנוֹ אֲשֶׁר-יָלְדָה הָגָר, יִשְׁמָעֵאל.

15 And Hagar bore Abram a son; and Abram called the name of his son, whom Hagar bore, Ishmael.

It is noteworthy that it is Abraham who names the boy and that two things are missing:

 

1.     Everywhere else in the Chumash the wife is the one to name the child and the father only announces it publically. This is true of barren Rachael when her maidservant   Bilhah gave birth to Jacob -- twice, and similarly when Leah gave him her maidservant Zilpah to have more children and two more sons were born. Rachel names Bilhah’s newborns Dan and Naphtali and Leah similarly names Zillah’s sons Gad and Asher.  (Gen. 30: 6, 8 and 11, 13)

 

2.     Moreover, in each case Rachel and Leah verbalized their thankfulness: that they had been allowed to have children through their maidservant surrogates.  (Gen.30: 6, 8      and 11,13)

 

But there is no such scene or recorded dialogue by Sarah in the Bible text.

 

Whatever good intentions Sarah had when handing over Hagar to be impregnated by Abraham, they soon vanished.

 

Sarah began by saying (Gen. 16: 2) :

 

ב  וַתֹּאמֶר שָׂרַי אֶל-אַבְרָם, הִנֵּה-נָא עֲצָרַנִי יְהוָה מִלֶּדֶת--בֹּא-נָא אֶל-שִׁפְחָתִי, אוּלַי אִבָּנֶה מִמֶּנָּה; וַיִּשְׁמַע אַבְרָם, לְקוֹל שָׂרָי.

2 And Sarai said unto Abram: 'Behold now, the LORD hath restrained me from bearing; go in, I pray thee, unto my handmaid; it may be that I shall be builded up through her.' And Abram hearkened to the voice of Sarai.

 

 

Barren Rachel used almost identical wording and the same key phrase:   אִבָּנֶה מִמֶּנָּה  - i.e.,  so that I may have offspring and build a family and descendants through her (Gen. 30:3).

 

Rachel, true to her word and intent, and so too with Leah, the sons of Bilhah:   Dan and Naphtali, and Zilpah’s sons: Gad and Asher, were fully embraced by Rachel and Leah and treated by all as equal offspring.

 

That is why these surrogate 4 sons, when added to the 6 sons of Leah and 2 of Rachel, resulted in the 12 sons of Jacob/Israel and the 12 equal tribes.

 

But that was not how it worked out with Sarah.  Ishmael was solely Abraham’s son.

 

Skip forward some 15 years. Sarah has finally, miraculously -- at age 90 – given    birth to a boy, who for various reasons is named Isaac, יִצְחָק  (Genesis 21:2-3).

Then, some 2 years later, at a celebration to commemorate the ‘weaning’ of Isaac – i.e., he was no longer considered an infant (and any normal breast-feedings ends)[iii] – Sarah sees Ishmael, now age 16, ‘making sport’  מְצַחֵק.        She immediately orders Abraham to expel both Hagar and Ishmael, and with sorrow in his heart – and only after God sends him a message “Listen to Sarah …” (Gen. 21:12) -- does Abraham do so.

The story of Sarah, Hagar and Ishmael now comes to a close.

 

 

The Text’s viewpoint and language 

Throughout, it is Sarah who dominates and takes centre stage as the text focuses on her perspective and her feelings. 

The only time any sympathy or support is show for Hagar is at the water hole   by a stranger – an angel of God.

As for Abraham, he is on the defensive throughout, submitting twice to Sarah’s demands – endorsed by God -- against his own wishes: first for a child/son from the pregnant Hagar, and finally, probably even more painfully, having to expel both Ishmael, the son he raised for 16 years and probably for Hagar as well.

She was, after all, his wife and just as with Bilhah and Zilpah who bore Jacob two (2) sons each over time– and as implied in Torah law (Exod. 21:10) -- Abraham owed   Hagar food, clothing and marital relations.

As for any repercussions from the exile of Ishmael and Hagar on the relationship between Abraham and Sarah, the Bible again is silent.

 

Finally, it is noteworthy that Gen. 21:9-15: from the moment Sarah got upset at Ishmael to the expulsion, Ishmael is never mentioned by name though he is the focus of all     these verses.  And his mother, Hagar, is named only once though the text also refers      to her numerous times.

 

https://www.mechon-mamre.org/p/pt/pt0121.htm

ט  וַתֵּרֶא שָׂרָה אֶת-בֶּן-הָגָר הַמִּצְרִית, אֲשֶׁר-יָלְדָה לְאַבְרָהָם--מְצַחֵק.

9 And Sarah saw the son of Hagar the Egyptian,      whom she had borne unto Abraham, making sport.

י  וַתֹּאמֶר, לְאַבְרָהָם, גָּרֵשׁ הָאָמָה הַזֹּאת, וְאֶת-בְּנָהּ:  כִּי לֹא יִירַשׁ בֶּן-הָאָמָה הַזֹּאת, עִם-בְּנִי עִם-יִצְחָק.

10 Wherefore she said unto Abraham: 'Cast out           this bondwoman and her son; for the son of this bondwoman shall not be heir with my son, even        with Isaac.'

יא  וַיֵּרַע הַדָּבָר מְאֹד, בְּעֵינֵי אַבְרָהָם, עַל, אוֹדֹת בְּנוֹ.

11 And the thing was very grievous in Abraham's sight on account of his son.

יב  וַיֹּאמֶר אֱלֹהִים אֶל-אַבְרָהָם, אַל-יֵרַע בְּעֵינֶיךָ עַל-הַנַּעַר וְעַל-אֲמָתֶךָ--כֹּל אֲשֶׁר תֹּאמַר אֵלֶיךָ שָׂרָה, שְׁמַע בְּקֹלָהּ:  כִּי בְיִצְחָק, יִקָּרֵא לְךָ זָרַע.

12 And God said unto Abraham: 'Let it not be grievous in thy sight because of the lad, and because of thy bondwoman; in all that Sarah     saith unto thee, hearken unto her voice; for in    Isaac shall seed be called to thee.

יג  וְגַם אֶת-בֶּן-הָאָמָה, לְגוֹי אֲשִׂימֶנּוּ:  כִּי זַרְעֲךָ, הוּא.

13 And also of the son of the bondwoman will I make a nation, because he is thy seed.'

יד  וַיַּשְׁכֵּם אַבְרָהָם בַּבֹּקֶר וַיִּקַּח-לֶחֶם וְחֵמַת מַיִם וַיִּתֵּן אֶל-הָגָר שָׂם עַל-שִׁכְמָהּ, וְאֶת-הַיֶּלֶד--וַיְשַׁלְּחֶהָ; וַתֵּלֶךְ וַתֵּתַע, בְּמִדְבַּר בְּאֵר שָׁבַע.

14 And Abraham arose up early in the morning,   and took bread and a bottle of water, and gave it unto Hagar, putting it on her shoulder, and the child, and sent her away; and she departed,   and strayed in the wilderness of Beer-sheba

 

In a mere 4 verses, Hagar is referred to 6 times and Ishmael also 6 times: always together, and, in all but the very last, in the bland and impersonal variations of       הָאָמָה הַזֹּאת, וְאֶת-בְּנָהּ = female slave and her son.

This is how the Bible narrator refers to them; how  Sarah refers to them when she speaks; and even God  does so when He reaches out to Abraham.

Only the last verse, when the narrator speaks on behalf of Abraham, is Hagar named;   and while avoiding the painful use of the name ‘Ishmael’ – “God has heard my plea”, Ishmael is still called “the child   הַיֶּלֶד. 

In the eyes of a good parent, an offspring: whether age 17 or 30 or 40, is always ‘my child’.

 

So even in the wording and language used by the Bible, it is Sarah’s mindset we hear.

 

But in fairness to the Bible (Gen. 21:15-21) it does not end with the exile.  Hagar and Ishmael get lost in the wilderness and run out of life-sustaining water.  Then, suddenly,   a voice from the sky tells her God has heard the crying of the dehydrated Ishmael and that there is a water pool nearby.

After Hagar refills her canteen, they move on and settle somewhere in the wilderness where Ishmael becomes a great hunter and leader.

 

Then, on Abraham’s death, at age 175, Ishmael reappears to participate alongside Isaac in Abraham’s funeral (Genesis ch. 25):

https://www.mechon-mamre.org/p/pt/pt0125.htm

  וַיִּקְבְּרוּ אֹתוֹ יִצְחָק וְיִשְׁמָעֵאל, בָּנָיו, אֶל-מְעָרַת, הַמַּכְפֵּלָה:  אֶל-שְׂדֵה עֶפְרֹן בֶּן-צֹחַר, הַחִתִּי, אֲשֶׁר, עַל-פְּנֵי מַמְרֵא.

9 And Isaac and Ishmael his sons buried him in the cave of Machpelah, in the field of Ephron the son of Zohar the Hittite, which is before Mamre;

י  הַשָּׂדֶה אֲשֶׁר-קָנָה אַבְרָהָם, מֵאֵת בְּנֵי-חֵת--שָׁמָּה קֻבַּר אַבְרָהָם, וְשָׂרָה אִשְׁתּוֹ.

10 the field which Abraham purchased of the children of Heth; there was Abraham buried, and Sarah his wife.

 

Abraham was buried some 72 years after Hagar and Ishmael were expelled.

Whether Ishmael, during those intervening years, ever communicated or visited his father -- especially after Sarah’s death at age 127,  i.e., just some 24 years after the expulsion -- is unknown.  But his return and participation in Abraham’s funeral is    noted by the Bible as a sign of a ‘good son’. (Gen. 25: 9).

In fact, the Bible immediately after Abraham’s death follows up with a quick summary of Ishmael’s life (Gen. 25: 12-17). He produced 12 sons who became great chieftains, and notes that Ishmael died at the ripe old age of 137 and without any long illness or pain:  וַיִּגְוַע .  

This, as noted in an earlier blog, is the most peaceful and desirable method of dying: reserved in the Bible for the righteous and those God favours.   

Abraham died this way  -- וַיִּגְוַע  -- in the preceding verse 8.  So do Isaac (Gen. 35:29), Jacob (Gen. 49:33) and Aaron (Num. 20:29)[iv]

 

The Perspective of an ancient observer and lawyer

Now, it is easy to understand the story of Sarah and Hagar and Ishmael at an emotional and interpersonal level as this is how the Bible casts the account     and rivalry.

But there is far more going on: something that anyone in ancient times would have recognized. Especially a lawyer.

Hagar’s legal status

Hagar, who originally was Sarah’s handmaiden/servant slave became – at Sarah’s suggestion – Abraham’s ‘second wife’. But then she reverted to her earlier handmaiden/servant slave status due to a slippery rule that allowed the husband   to return her to the control of his first wife if he so wished, or agreed to under pressure.

Gen. 16: 6

ו  וַיֹּאמֶר אַבְרָם אֶל-שָׂרַי, הִנֵּה שִׁפְחָתֵךְ בְּיָדֵךְ--עֲשִׂי-לָהּ, הַטּוֹב בְּעֵינָיִךְ; וַתְּעַנֶּהָ שָׂרַי, וַתִּבְרַח מִפָּנֶיהָ.

6 But Abram said unto Sarai: 'Behold, thy maid is in thy hand; do to her that which is good in thine eyes.' And Sarai dealt harshly with her, and she fled from her face.

Once Hagar returned and gave birth to Ishmael, she reverted to the control of the husband as his ‘second wife’.

It is important to stress this as Hagar is never called in the Bible a ‘concubine’.            She is Abraham’s ‘wife’ as stated in Gen 16:3  לְאִשָּׁהֹ לו “.

The Hebrew term for concubine is  ALWAYS  פּלּגּשּ .  For example, Gen. 22:24,    Judges 19: 24-25,27, 29;  2 Samuel 16:21-22, 20:3 and 1 Kings 11:3.

King David had at least 7 full wives and at least 10 concubines (as discussed by     Talmud Bavli, Sanhedrin 21a 17) and, most famously, King Solomon had 300 concubines and 700 wives:

1 Kings 11:3

ג  וַיְהִי-לוֹ נָשִׁים, שָׂרוֹת שְׁבַע מֵאוֹת, וּפִלַגְשִׁים, שְׁלֹשׁ מֵאוֹת; וַיַּטּוּ נָשָׁיו, אֶת-לִבּוֹ.

3 And he had seven hundred wives, princesses, and three hundred concubines; and his wives turned away his heart.

 

Also, Hagar was not alone in such a rise from handmaiden slave to ‘second wife‘      status as it recurred two generations later re: Bilhah and Zilpah.

Bilhah and Zilpah, the handmaiden slaves of Rachel and Leah respectively, were given to Jacob by their respective mistresses as  לְאִשָּׁה לוֹ and continued the  rest of their lives as full ‘second wives’ in status.

And although are they are mentioned numerous times in the Bible, they are not called concubines פִלַגְשִׁים.

Only once is there such a label applied: Gen. 35:22, when Reuben slept with Bilhah.

כב  וַיְהִי, בִּשְׁכֹּן יִשְׂרָאֵל בָּאָרֶץ הַהִוא, וַיֵּלֶךְ רְאוּבֵן וַיִּשְׁכַּב אֶת-בִּלְהָה פִּילֶגֶשׁ אָבִיו
 

22 And it came to pass, while Israel dwelt in that land, that Reuben went and lay with Bilhah his father's concubine; and Israel heard of it. {P} 

The Talmud and Rabbinic attempts to deny the plain meaning of the text (i.e.    he only removed Jacobs bed or disheveled the sheets) is rejected by the Radak (1160-1235) and Chatam Sofer (1762–1839) who alone seem to have paid any attention to the use of the term ‘concubine’ here and how this is in conflict with the ‘full wife’ status she has with the Bible’s marriage use of Formula #1:     לְאִשָּׁה לוֹ (Gen. 30:4)[v]

 

In fact, the circumstances of Bilhah and Zilpah’s rise from servant/slave status  so  closely parallels that of Hagar that there is clearly an underlying  ‘pattern’ that  deserves closer examination.

 

Initiators  and their Motivation  

If one compares the Bible’s wording in the three cases: Sarah – Rachel -- Leah, it is essentially the same.

A wife wishes to give her husband an offspring but cannot do so. She then convinces the husband to consort with her handmaiden/servant so that a child may be born in the through the ‘handmaiden—the substitute wife’ or ‘surrogate’, and the offspring is to be seen as the child of the ‘donor wife’

In the cases of Rachel and Leah, it is they, the ‘donor’ wives, who give the children names based on their perceptions of the births as God’s gift to them.

Compare the 3 texts:

SARAH

 

ב  וַתֹּאמֶר שָׂרַי אֶל-אַבְרָם, הִנֵּה-נָא עֲצָרַנִי יְהוָה מִלֶּדֶת--בֹּא-נָא אֶל-שִׁפְחָתִי, אוּלַי אִבָּנֶה מִמֶּנָּה; וַיִּשְׁמַע אַבְרָם, לְקוֹל שָׂרָי.

2 And Sarai said unto Abram: 'Behold now, the LORD hath restrained me from bearing; go in, I pray thee, unto my handmaid; it may be that I shall be builded up through her.' And Abram hearkened to the voice of Sarai.

 

ג  וַתִּקַּח שָׂרַי אֵשֶׁת-אַבְרָם, אֶת-הָגָר הַמִּצְרִית שִׁפְחָתָהּ, מִקֵּץ עֶשֶׂר שָׁנִים, לְשֶׁבֶת אַבְרָם בְּאֶרֶץ כְּנָעַן; וַתִּתֵּן אֹתָהּ לְאַבְרָם אִישָׁהּ, לוֹ לְאִשָּׁה.

3 And Sarai Abram's wife took Hagar the Egyptian, her handmaid, after Abram had dwelt ten years in the land of Canaan, and gave her to Abram her husband to be his wife.

 

But note the difference when naming the child for Sarah did not do so but it   was left to Abraham:

 

 

 

טו  וַתֵּלֶד הָגָר לְאַבְרָם, בֵּן; וַיִּקְרָא אַבְרָם שֶׁם-בְּנוֹ אֲשֶׁר-יָלְדָה הָגָר, יִשְׁמָעֵאל.

15 And Hagar bore Abram a son;          and Abram called the name of his        son, whom Hagar bore, Ishmael.

 

RACHEL

 

 

ג  וַתֹּאמֶר, הִנֵּה אֲמָתִי בִלְהָה בֹּא אֵלֶיהָ; וְתֵלֵד, עַל-בִּרְכַּי, וְאִבָּנֶה גַם-אָנֹכִי, מִמֶּנָּה.

3 And she said: 'Behold my maid Bilhah,                  go in unto her; that she may bear upon                  my knees, and I also may be builded up         through her.'

 

ד  וַתִּתֶּן-לוֹ אֶת-בִּלְהָה שִׁפְחָתָהּ, לְאִשָּׁה; וַיָּבֹא אֵלֶיהָ, יַעֲקֹב.

4 And she gave him Bilhah her handmaid                 to wife; and Jacob went in unto her.

 

ה  וַתַּהַר בִּלְהָה, וַתֵּלֶד לְיַעֲקֹב בֵּן.

5 And Bilhah conceived, and bore Jacob a son.

 

ו  וַתֹּאמֶר רָחֵל, דָּנַנִּי אֱלֹהִים, וְגַם שָׁמַע בְּקֹלִי, וַיִּתֶּן-לִי בֵּן; עַל-כֵּן קָרְאָה שְׁמוֹ, דָּן.

6 And Rachel said: 'God hath judged me, and     hath also heard my voice, and hath given me           a son.' Therefore called she his name Dan.

 

ז  וַתַּהַר עוֹד--וַתֵּלֶד, בִּלְהָה שִׁפְחַת רָחֵל:  בֵּן שֵׁנִי, לְיַעֲקֹב.

7 And Bilhah Rachel's handmaid conceived       again, and bore Jacob a second son.

 

ח  וַתֹּאמֶר רָחֵל, נַפְתּוּלֵי אֱלֹהִים נִפְתַּלְתִּי עִם-אֲחֹתִי--גַּם-יָכֹלְתִּי; וַתִּקְרָא שְׁמוֹ, נַפְתָּלִי.

8 And Rachel said: 'With mighty wrestlings         have I wrestled with my sister, and have    prevailed.' And she called his name Naphtali.

 

 

LEAH

 

 

ט  וַתֵּרֶא לֵאָה, כִּי עָמְדָה מִלֶּדֶת; וַתִּקַּח אֶת-זִלְפָּה שִׁפְחָתָהּ, וַתִּתֵּן אֹתָהּ לְיַעֲקֹב לְאִשָּׁה.

9 When Leah saw that she had left off bearing,     she took Zilpah her handmaid, and gave her           to Jacob to wife.

 

י  וַתֵּלֶד, זִלְפָּה שִׁפְחַת לֵאָה--לְיַעֲקֹב בֵּן.

10 And Zilpah Leah's handmaid bore Jacob a       son.

 

יא  וַתֹּאמֶר לֵאָה, בגד (בָּא גָד); וַתִּקְרָא אֶת-שְׁמוֹ, גָּד.

11 And Leah said: 'Fortune is come!' And she    called his name Gad.

 

יב  וַתֵּלֶד, זִלְפָּה שִׁפְחַת לֵאָה, בֵּן שֵׁנִי, לְיַעֲקֹב.

12 And Zilpah Leah's handmaid bore Jacob a second son.

 

יג  וַתֹּאמֶר לֵאָה--בְּאָשְׁרִי, כִּי אִשְּׁרוּנִי בָּנוֹת; וַתִּקְרָא אֶת-שְׁמוֹ, אָשֵׁר.

13 And Leah said: 'Happy am I! for the daughters will call me happy.' And she called his name    Asher.

 

Put simply, the text presents Bilhah and Zilpah as well as Hagar as procreation surrogates and the birth of their offspring should be a joy to the barren wife who orchestrated these unions and births.

 

Bible law re: inheritance

Sarah’s concern re: Ishmael: that erupted when he was age 17 and Isaac a mere    age 2, is clear from her wording in the Bible

Gen. 21:10

י  וַתֹּאמֶר, לְאַבְרָהָם, גָּרֵשׁ הָאָמָה הַזֹּאת, וְאֶת-בְּנָהּ:  כִּי לֹא יִירַשׁ בֶּן-הָאָמָה הַזֹּאת, עִם-בְּנִי עִם-יִצְחָק.

10 Wherefore she said unto Abraham: 'Cast out this bondwoman and her son; for the son of this bondwoman shall not be heir with my son, even with Isaac.'

 

Suddenly, Sarah fears that Ishmael will inherit alongside Isaac on Abraham’s death.

If she foresaw Torah law as Divinely stated in Deut. 21:15-17, she had good reason to be upset.

Det. 21:15-17 rules that irrespective of which wife the husband ‘loved more’ or   even if he ‘hated one wife’,  the laws of inheritance are based   on which son was born first – irrespective of the mother and any ‘love’   or ‘hate’ between husband and wife. The son born first gets a double share compared to any other sons.

 

טו  כִּי-תִהְיֶיןָ לְאִישׁ שְׁתֵּי נָשִׁים, הָאַחַת אֲהוּבָה וְהָאַחַת שְׂנוּאָה, וְיָלְדוּ-לוֹ בָנִים, הָאֲהוּבָה וְהַשְּׂנוּאָה; וְהָיָה הַבֵּן הַבְּכֹר, לַשְּׂנִיאָה.

15 If a man have two wives, the one beloved, and the other hated, and they have borne him children, both the beloved and the hated; and if the first-born son be hers that was hated;

טז  וְהָיָה, בְּיוֹם הַנְחִילוֹ אֶת-בָּנָיו, אֵת אֲשֶׁר-יִהְיֶה, לוֹ--לֹא יוּכַל, לְבַכֵּר אֶת-בֶּן-הָאֲהוּבָה, עַל-פְּנֵי בֶן-הַשְּׂנוּאָה, הַבְּכֹר.

16 then it shall be, in the day that he causeth his sons to inherit that which he hath, that he may not make the son of the beloved the first-born before the son of the hated, who is the first-born;

יז  כִּי אֶת-הַבְּכֹר בֶּן-הַשְּׂנוּאָה יַכִּיר, לָתֶת לוֹ פִּי שְׁנַיִם, בְּכֹל אֲשֶׁר-יִמָּצֵא, לוֹ:  כִּי-הוּא רֵאשִׁית אֹנוֹ, לוֹ מִשְׁפַּט הַבְּכֹרָה.  {ס}

17 but he shall acknowledge the first-born, the son of the hated, by giving him a double portion of all that he hath; for he is the first-fruits of his strength, the right of the first-born is his. 

If Hagar was considered in law a true ‘second wife’, , לוֹ לְאִשָּׁה her son Ishmael would – as he was born first -- have been the primogenitor heir and entitled to a double portion of the estate.  

Now the Divine law given in Deuteronomy is post- Exodus and post- Mount Sinai revelation, so one could argue this law and commandment would NOT have applied hundreds of years before to the Sarah-Hagar-Ishmael situation.

But as we have already discussed above, two generations later, the exact Sarah-Hagar scenario recurred when barren Rachel gives her husband Jacob her handmaiden Bilhah to bear offspring, and so did Leah with Zilpah: with these 4 surrogate sons becoming equal heirs with the other children born of Leah (6) and Rachel (2).

Here too, however, we need not speculate that these matriarchs and Jacob ‘knew Torah law in advance’.

 

Relevant Ancient Law Codes

As stated at the outset of this blog, the patriarchs and our earliest ancestors did not live in a vacuum. The communities   and societies in which they grew up and lived had established traditions, customs and laws that everyone was expected to follow.

The Bible even acknowledges this in Leviticus 18: 2-5 where it orders the children of Israel NOT to follow various matrimonial laws and customs of either Egypt or Canaan.

 

The laws re: marriage and inheritance that would have applied in the land of  Canaan were probably in all likelihood identical to Mesopotamian law, for all              7 nations were Semitic[vi] and descendants of the man named Canaan and of Mesopotamian ancestry (Gen. 10: 15-19).

 

So too were Abraham and Sarah, their offspring, and even Leah and Rachel (and of course Laban) who lived north of the Euphrates.

 

The Mesopotamian connection is why Abraham and all the patriarchs and their descendants are called HEBREWS in the Bible: literary, “they come from over the    river (Euphrates)” – the official southern boundary  of ancient Mesopotamia[vii] .

 

Q: So what was Mesopotamian law regarding inheritance?

 

Two codes have been uncovered from that ancient land.

 

The Code of Ur-Numma dates from the 22nd century BCE.  But only 30 of its apparent 57 laws have survived in legible form and none deal with inheritance.[viii]

 

But the Code of Hammurabi, the great Mesopotamian king who lived just before          or was a contemporary of Abraham at the start of the 18th century BCE[ix] has been recovered: all 282 laws[x]. And this Code continued in force for many centuries[xi].

 

A number of its laws deal with marriage, divorce, widowhood, adultery, annulment, adoption, etc. but only the following are relevant here:

 

144. If a man take a wife and this woman give her husband a maid-servant, and she bear him children, but this man wishes to take another wife, this shall not be permitted to him; he shall not take a second wife.

 

145. If a man take a wife, and she bear him no children, and he intend to take another wife: if he take this second wife, and bring her into the house, this second wife shall not be allowed equality with his wife.

 

146. If a man take a wife and she give this man a maid-servant as wife and she bear him children, and then this maid assume equality with the wife: because she has borne him children her master shall not sell her for money, but he may keep her as a slave, reckoning her among the maid-servants.

 

147. If she have not borne him children, then her mistress may sell her for money.

 

170. If his wife bear sons to a man, or his maid-servant have borne sons, and the father while still living says to the children whom his maid-servant has borne: "My sons," and he count them with the sons of his wife; if then the father die, then the sons of the wife and of the maid-servant shall divide the paternal property in common. The son of the wife is to partition and choose.

 

171. If, however, the father while still living did not say to the sons of the maid-servant: "My sons," and then the father dies, then the sons of the maid-servant shall not share with the sons of the wife, but the freedom of the maid and her sons shall be granted. The sons of the wife shall have no right to enslave the sons of the maid; the wife shall take her dowry (from her father), and the gift that her husband gave her and deeded to her (separate from dowry, or the purchase-money paid her father), and live in the home of her husband: so long as she lives she shall use it, it shall not be sold for money. Whatever she leaves shall belong to her children.

 

 

From the above laws, it is clear having a ‘full freeborn wife’ plus a maid-servant      slave as a procreation surrogate partner was normal.

 

If a ‘full freeborn wife’ is barren, she cannot be expelled nor lose her status as ‘mistress of the home’ to any second ‘full freeborn wife’ or ‘maidservant slave’ second wife. (#144, #145 and #146)

 

And if a barren wife gives her husband a maidservant slave who produces offspring,    that man cannot ever add a second ‘full freeborn wife’ to the group. The act of having      fruitful maidservant protects the role and status of the barren wife. (#144)

 

If, however, the barren wife does not supply a fruitful maidservant slave, the husband is free to contract a second full marriage and add a second ‘full wife’ to the home – but the second freeborn wife does not supplant the first full freeborn wife as ‘mistress of the home’. (#145)

 

 Furthermore, a maidservant slave who bears her master/husband offspring rises in status to almost equal to that of the full freeborn wife. He may still count her as property among his slaves but he cannot sell her. (#146)

 

But if the maidservant slave is unable to bear children, she remains the property of the full freeborn wife who is free to sell her. (#147)

 

Lastly, #170 states that the sons of a maidservant slave whom the father claims as “my sons”,  get an equal share of the inheritance with any sons from the man’s ‘full wife’.

 

Conversely, #171 covers the opposite. If he never acknowledges them officially as his sons, they have no claim to share the estate. But they and their servile mother are to be set free on the husband’s death.

 

IMPLICATIONS

The implications of the above laws for Abraham – Sarah-- Hagar and Ishmael seem clear.

1.     By supplying a fruitful maidservant, Sarah protected herself from Abraham          ever adding another full freeborn wife during her lifetime. (#144 and #145)

2.     Once Hagar became pregnant, she became under the full and sole control of Abraham. (#146)  Hagar is also protected from any domination or abuse by Sarah as she is now, in law, almost her equal. (#146)

3.     When Sarah got upset at Hagar’s new behaviour once pregnant, she had to get Abraham’s authorization to have Hagar revert to her control as a maidservant.  The Hammurabi Code does not mention such a legal option,   but Abraham gave in when Sarah said God would judge who was in the right (Gen. 16:5-6). 

 

4.     Ishmael is Abraham’s first born son and as Abraham repeatedly refers to him as ‘son’ (Gen. 17:18, 21:11). Under Mesopotamian law Ishmael would be entitled to an equal share of Abraham’s wealth alongside Isaac. (#170)

 

5.     By expelling Ishmael (age 17) along with Hagar at Sarah’s insistence,   Abraham seems to be acting contrary to Mesopotamian law (#170).  Maybe that is why the Bible stresses he did so on God’s order (Gen. 21: 12).

 

Or, maybe Abraham had not yet formally declared Ishmael as “my son”, and when he sent away BOTH Hagar and Ishmael, he did so in line with      Code #171: FREEING BOTH the mother slave and her slave offspring by sending them away.

 

 

CONCLUSION

 

The story of Sarah, Hagar and Ishmael played out sadly.

 

For all of Sarah’s good intentions at the start: to supply Abraham with a child and male heir through her maidservant slave surrogate, it soon fell apart. Unlike the successful surrogates Bilhah and Zilpah whose  4 sons by Jacob were fully accepted by Rachel and Leah and Jacob: becoming 4 of the 12 tribes of Israel.

 

And Sarah clearly knew her Mesopotamian law. 

 

1.     She protected her status and avoided a second ‘full freeborn’ wife rival   in the home by allowing Abraham a chance at offspring and a male heir via the surrogate womb of Hagar.

 

2.     And Sarah was able to manipulate Abraham twice as, under the Code, Hagar was still legally of slave status:

·        Pressuring him to return to her control ‘her’ pregnant slave.

·        And, finally, pressuring Abraham to expel both Hagar and Ishmael as per Code #171.      

    

To Sarah they were both always ‘the alien other’.  She always refers to Hagar as ‘her’ maidservant slave and stressed her Egyptian, foreign ancestry.

And Ishmael was never embraced by Sarah as ‘my surrogate son’; unlike Rachel and Leah.

 

3.     She ensured that Ishmael never inherit alongside Isaac, the child of her own flesh and blood.

ט  וַתֵּרֶא שָׂרָה אֶת-בֶּן-הָגָר הַמִּצְרִית, אֲשֶׁר-יָלְדָה לְאַבְרָהָם--מְצַחֵק.

9 And Sarah saw the son of Hagar the Egyptian, whom she had borne unto Abraham, making sport.

י  וַתֹּאמֶר, לְאַבְרָהָם, גָּרֵשׁ הָאָמָה הַזֹּאת, וְאֶת-בְּנָהּ:  כִּי לֹא יִירַשׁ בֶּן-הָאָמָה הַזֹּאת, עִם-בְּנִי עִם-יִצְחָק.

10 Wherefore she said unto Abraham: 'Cast out   this bondwoman and her son; for the son of this bondwoman shall not be heir with my son, even with Isaac.'

 

  

In so doing, Sarah tried her best to ensure that Isaac became Abraham’s sole heir: to fulfill his Divine destiny as the next Patriarch of the Jewish People.

 

 

Note: As Sarah died and Abraham thereafter took another ‘mate’: Keturah, who bore him 6 sons, Sarah’s plans could have been undone.

 

But in the next blog, Part 3: Keturah, why this did not happen will be explained.  And, as well, it wil be revealed more of what the term ‘concubine’  meant in Patriarch times.

 

 

Supplementary Note:

While one might get the impression from the lives of the Patriarchs and later King David and King Solomon that polygamy was an accepted ancient norm, that is not true of early Mesopotamian law.

The Code of Hammurabi preferred monogamy.

Only if the first ‘full freeborn wife’ is barren can a man add one additional  ‘full freeborn wife’ -- to father children. (#145)  

 

If a man’s first ‘full wife’ is barren and gives him her maidservant slave to bear offspring, that too becomes the marital limit of two spouses (#144)

 

So, under Mesopotamian law, polygamy is limited to barren situations and has a very short breadth of two.

 

Consequently the situation with Leah and Rachel is an anomaly under the Code. 

 

Yes, 2 freeborn full wives is allowed but only if the first – after many years –proves barren.  Jacob’s wedding to Rachel takes place just 7 days after he wed Leah: not enough time to argue in court: ”My first wife is unable to conceive’. But Jacob could have argued he had contracted with Laban to marry Rachel and switching sisters was done without his consent or prior knowledge. I.e., He only realized the wife under the heavy veil was not Rachel the NEXT MORNING (Gen. 19:25). He must have been too merry from drinking and consummated the marriage the first night without kissing – or at least without his eyes open.

 

The Code also does not include the concept of a concubine as envisioned in later history: a ‘common law’ union between a freeborn man and a female (slave) based solely on her beauty and sex appeal[xii].

 

In Mesopotamian law, marital unions and sex were always primarily to produce offspring.

 

However, The Code re: marital unions clearly collapsed centuries later.

 

The great judge Gideon fathered 71 sons through “many wives” and at least one identified ‘concubine’ (Judges 8:30-31). King David had at least 7 full freeborn wives and at least 10 other concubines: chosen for their beauty and sex appeal as discussed by Talmud Bavli, Sanhedrin 21a 17.  And King Solomon was notorious for having 700 full freeborn wives and 300 concubines (1 Kings 11:3).

 

Hosting a harem of full wives and even ‘common law’ concubines was now lawful.



[i] Abraham was 75 years old when he and Sarah entered Canaan.  10 years later Sarah gave Hagar to Abraham to bear a child as she could not. The boy, Ishmael, was born when Abraham was 86. (See Genesis 16: 3,16)

[ii] NOTE: The angel who met Hagar at the water hole did tell her that her son is to be named Ishmael as “the LORD hath heard thy – i.e,. Hagar’s - affliction.” (Gen. 16:11)  But Abraham would not have used the same reasoning.

[iii] See Rashi who cites Talmud Bavli,  Gitten 75b for the 2 years figure. 

[iv] See Strong’s Concordance for item 1478 at https://biblehub.com/hebrew/1478.htm

[v] See Sefaria,  Resources in right sidebar for Gen. 35:22.

[vi] https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Canaan

[vii]See Gen. 14:13, 39:14 and 17, Exod. 41:12; Exod. 1:15-16, 19, 21, Exod. 2:6-7, 11, 13; Exod. 21:2; Deut. 15:12 and nine other times in the ensuing Tanach as tracked by Bible Hub at https://biblehub.com/topical/h/hebrew.htm

[viii] See https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Code_of_Ur-Nammu

[ix] https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hammurabi

[x] https://avalon.law.yale.edu/ancient/hamframe.asp

[xii] See https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Concubinage

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